Well this is a new section to my blog, on Special Occasions
and I hope it is of help to you.
I am no expert at this, just that I have had success in some
attempts and hence thought of sharing them here. I know I have few interesting faces
starring at the computer screen and few not so good looking faces grinning at
why on earth will I do a post on this but I just felt like
it… As simple as that.
5 simple Ideas to help you plan His gift right
1. Watch Out on what His interests are -
Now this is a crazy thing you need to do throughout the year,
while your shopping, talking, watching tv, driving – your man will give you
hints on something he likes doing/ wants and has been waiting to do it but like
most important things he forgets it altogether, which is good for us wifes :D
(grinning). So remember those forgotten things and plan his gift/ surprise. It
could even be a membership to the gym, that’s a good healthy gift ladies, may
be that’s a way to get your man working-out.
2. Romantic interests –
Of course we all have a Romantic side to us, which gets
unleashed and freed when we get married and fall in love with our other half
(not the better half, come on we are equally good). So there would be some fancy
romantic ideas which you would have shared as a couple, may be a candle light
dinner by the sea. Or a day stay at a good beach resort or may be a night drive
to the beach. I know you must be saying but I have kids what do I do? Ok may be
leave them under someone’s care or after they sleep plan for a romantic meal at
home. Just think and think there are so many options, it’s just that you need
to spend time to brew over your memory.
3. Simple & thoughtful things –
Write and this will stay forever, I still give cards to my
husband for the most simple reasons and occasions, he actually files them and
reads them when the file happens to meet his eyes. Needless to say that he
quotes them when we have those quarrels, but the thing is he remembers them. Get
creative and write them yourself, there are quite a few online sites that offer
you to personalize cards (with own text). Leave love notes in his lunch box/
desk and in the car, but be careful when you have people around at home. You
don’t want to get embarrassed and only put them in places where he would see
them.
Its alright if you are not the writing type, you could
collect a bunch of memorable pictures make them into a collage and frame it. You
can also write few words here and there and give it a personal touch. (*follow
some links to personalized card/gift site online & online collage-making
sites at the end of this post).
4. Gifting according to age –
As men get older they don’t like to be reminded of their age,
who does like it… but this is something that they will enjoy for sure.
This was my first gift idea for my husband for his first
birthday that we were together. We were engaged and the following month was his
birthday and I wanted to surprise him and was sure of what I wanted to do (I
had been having his idea for years and waiting for the right one), ok going to
it, I had planned give him gifts as his
age, wrapped them each separately and put then in a huge box and further
wrapped that and sealed it with a card on top. I had given him the gift box two
days ahead of his birthday and gave standing instructions not to open it until
the early hrs of his birthday (12 pm past). He was so curious to see whats in
the box and the suspense was too much and he had to wait. And finally he opened
it and kept unwrapping each gift one by one, I had planned to number the gifts
so that he opens it in that particular order.
Or another good way to pull off this idea is to hide the
gifts in different places like a treasure chest giving clues to find the other.
I am sure this will make him work hard for his gifts :P
5. Bake/ Cook for Him
No other best way to satisfy a man. Haven’t you heard “the
best way to reach a man’s heart is through his belly” ? so cook him something
different that you have never tried before, this would make him feel special. Nothing
can beat a home cooked meal, so tap your creative side and make sure you
secretly try the dish before making it on his special day to avoid
disappointments. Make sure you use his favorite ingredients cos its his day,
let it be something that he loves. And if you still are struggling to think of
the perfect dish just remember the different dishes that he often orders in restaurants
or if he is a mummy’s boy get his mother’s signature recipe and try it out.
Now don’t forget to drop your comments below, you can also
share what has worked for you so that it might help others. I am sure you must
have had success too...
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Personalized Card/gifts/flowers sites (click below to view)
Moonpig (UK, US, Australia)
FunkyPigeon (UK)
Picsquare (India/International)
Snapfish (Worldwide)
**the above sites are trusted and tried by either my friends
or me, But please use discretion while trying to use them. In case the link does not work it could be that you may not be able to access them from your region/ just google search. I may not be responsible if something goes wrong with your order/ purchase neither am I getting paid by them to post this.
Online Collage sites / tools
Picture2Life (web-based)
Picasa (free download)
nice post..i gifted him a watch and a big remote control car for his two birthdays after our marriage :)
ReplyDeleteI think he must have loved both gifts :-) its so nice of you to share PT. Thank u!
DeleteSuch a lovely post Priya, for my husband's 30th birthday, i invited his 6 brothers & sister secretly with their family to celebrate at home with his favourite chicken briyani, prawn fry and spring rolls, my SIL and myself prepared a three layered chocolate cake specially on that.
ReplyDeleteI gifted his new car(renault scenic he is driving still)with my BIL's help, seriously we planned all these for almost 6 months. The final result was my H with loads of tears:)..well am planning some more surprises for his upcoming 40th birthday too.
Waiting eagerly to know about yours:).
WOW... I am happy I got to post this cos I get to hear what all you lovely ladies are doing for your husbands. Priya i am sure your husband must have totally enjoyed his day and it must still be a lovely memorable day for him.. Can't wait to hear what you do for his 40'th :P.. Good luck and would love to hear from you.
DeleteWow lovely post :) Superb explanation!!! Also cute widget for ur hubby''s countdown b'day :)I gifted him Android Samsung Tablet :)and homemade 2 Tier Cake :) HE got surprised and asked where did I get money $$$$? Ha Ha Ha LOL :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Achu :-) great to see your response... I am sure your other half was excited...
DeleteLovely post & very well explained. Everyone has some wish to gift his/her beloved. But I think, how he wants to celebreate his birthday...it is the most important thing. So, we jointly planned and celebrate with friends accordingly. Because, here in US, we don't have any relative. On the question of gift.......I could not afford costly gift, because I am not a working lady in US. So my gifts are always too humble comparatively others. But I made cake and food according to his choice only.
ReplyDeleteThank u dear... I am sure your husband must have been really surprised. Anything that is done with love is worth a gift :-)
DeleteA good article for people like me to learn Priya! Thanks for sharing, enjoyed reading it.
ReplyDelete@ Divya ~ thanks dear...loved your comments, romantic surprises are even better ;-)...glad to know your secrets @ Swasthi ~ thank u dear
ReplyDeleteWow great post Priya, I love surprises and give surprises too ;) so it seems to be the same everywhere,never tell what they like best,only dropping hints:) love the personalized card idea,I do it every time..learned a lot from your post dear and enjoyed reading,thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteHi Suja, thanks for the comment. Personalized cards are so good, some sites have video cards too which can be viewed through a iphone/ smart phone. There are so many lovely layouts and designs you must check it out dear.
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ReplyDeletehI pRIYA, This is a superb post. Its been 3 years since we got married and have celebrated only 2 bdays of him together. fourth bday is yet to come in October... The other thing is we both share our bdays jus within 2 days.... his is 23rd n mine is 26th. we celebrated our first bday together by planning the honeymoon betn our bdays.. It was so romantic.... hehehe.... I have done all the above points you have mentioned.....kudos...
ReplyDeleteHi Jillu, what a refreshment to see your comment in the morning. You guys made the best of both days and to top it made it a romantic one :D lovely dear, so happy to see romantic ppl posting :P. Also if you have other ideas do post here would love to hear from you :-).
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So whats your plan for ur hubby's bday which is approaching???
DeleteHi Jillu, I am still preparing for the big day :-) its a surprise will soon share it with all of you. Till then keep calm :D
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DeleteWow...what a sweet idea:-)Let me make my husband read this so that he get some ideas for celebrating my birthday:-) I never ever gave any surprise gifts to DH..Surprises freak him out and I learned that the hard way:-( Any ways lucky me i never have to scratch my head and plan for surprise parties!
ReplyDelete:D LOL yea why not husbands can take ideas from this :P... good luck to your husband and would love to know what he gifted u
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ReplyDeleteinteresting blog. It would be great if you can provide more details about it. Thanks you
Birthday Gifts for Men
Nice blog..
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